Winner Takes it All

Have you ever had two thoughts about onesnapped out of it and got his positive flow back in
situation? And were those thoughts both positivea short time frame.
and negative? When I recently had such anRemember the saying, A positive attitude can
opposing thought, it really started me thinkingmove you in the direction of success, and a
about how our thoughts impact our lives. Thinknegative attitude can just as easily move you in
about it, a few of the great universal laws rulingthe direction of despair. The way you react to
our wonderful planet say that you get back whatthings is how your surroundings will be lived. If you
you put out there. Your thoughts are what youwalk around all day with the poor me syndrome,
become; treat others, as you would want to beyou will be busy, busy thinking about everything
treated. I can go on and on, attitude is everything,that can go wrong, and you will spend most your
what you think, feel and believe, is what you willtime focusing on the negative, and will exhaust
draw to you. All of these statements are said toyourself before you can begin thinking in a
be true.positive mode.
I can tell you from my own personal experience,What you need to be doing is to focus on the
and from what I have seenpositive, and begin to create ways to dig deep to
And heard from others, that once you becomefind your positive thoughts, as well as your inner
aware of the fact that you control the way youstrength, and then using it to create a successful
react to and perceive a situation, you will then beoutcome. I can't stress enough the importance of
in a much better place to create the movementthinking and being aware of your thought pattern.
towards the direction you would like it to go.Some people are so use to going straight to the
To give a quick example, I have a good friendnegative, that most outcomes are not to their
who was recently laid off from a job in thesatisfaction. That is just not good enough for me,
financial industry. Instead of spending weeks andand it should not be good enough for you.
weeks in a negative flow of energy, he onlyYou have all the tools and all the power to think
spent a few days in that mode, and then pickedthe way you choose, and that should be in a
himself up and started looking for another job inpositive mode. Too much is at stake for you to
the same industry.settle for a natural negative flow.
His though process shifted in those few daysIf you find that you lean more towards the
from, I can stay in this mind-space of negative,negative then the positive, there are a few simple
and just sit here and waddle in my unhappiness,things you can do to shift that attitude. The first
or I can pick myself up and actively search outthing to do is to become aware of the fact that
what I want for myself. I am very happy heyou mostly think in a negative way. Next try to
chose to search out what he wanted. His essencefigure out how, and where that thinking pattern
is way to amazing to just sit and waddle.may have begun. If you cannot pinpoint exactly
Low and behold, three weeks later, he found awhen flowing toward the negative began, it is no
fabulous job in the same field he was just laid offbig deal, just start to now become conscious of
from, and it was an hour less commute to andshifting that thought process into a positive one.
from his office, as well as much brighterYou can also start using daily affirmations stating
surroundings, and great people to work with.such simple truths as " I am great and happy,
Now if he would have stayed with a negativebecause that is the way I choose to be, and I will
outlook, he could have gone on that interviewdeal with all situations in a positive way."
with underlying energetic negativity, and he mayThe winner does take it all in life. That is because
not have been offered the position. People canthey have the mindset and the vision of a winner.
pick up on the energy you bring to their space,They will not settle for anything less, and neither
and if does not feel good, they will tend to notshould you. Everyone in this world can be a
want to be around you. So again, I am happy hewinner; it is his or her choice.